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The Uninvited Guest - July 28, 2010



Illness is the other;
The uninvited guest
To welcome in this stranger,
Radiates protest

I remain the host,
At a party I didn’t plan;
I remain the host,
Until the fatal end

But at the party there is laughter
Sweet love and precious life
There is trueness
There is wholeness
And the uninvited guest 

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